When I looked through my contacts list to find friends to revisit for the holidays, I realized that many are going home to family in the many small towns of the States. It reminded me that so much of our personal identities are culturally landscaped; we are the geographies of our mother’s home cooking.
What would the mapping of NYC’s bustling queer community measure? How would we plot the points of our friends and how far do we stretch?
One friend I asked as she arrived just yesterday, how is it being in the middle of the country?
“It’s Country and backwards…home regardless…it’s actually hilarious.”
This of course was before we were asked to stop marching because of the death of two fallen soldiers. I must say that although it is all a trajedy, the death of two officers cannot make up for the death of young black and brown men throughout the country. I see these officers as victims of this same war. I hope that no one feels avenged here. War is not the subject of this blog post though.